Do you tear up easily at touching TV commercials?
Are you especially moved by old photographs?
Do you react intensely to music, art or nature?
Have others described you as an “old soul”?
Do you find comfort or inspiration in a rainy day?
Do you know what the author C.S. Lewis meant when he described joy as a “sharp, wonderful stab of longing”?
Do you prefer poetry to sports (or maybe you find the poetry in sports)?
Are you moved to goosebumps several times a day?
Do you see “the tears in things”? (This phrase comes from Virgil’s Aeneid.)
Do you feel elevated by sad music?
Do you tend to see the happiness and sadness in things, all at once?
Do you seek out beauty in your everyday life?
Does the word poignant especially resonate with you?
When you have conversations with close friends, are you drawn to talking about their past or current troubles?
And this: Do you feel the ecstatic is close at hand?
You tend toward the sanguine (cheerfully optimistic).
You tend to move easily between sanguine and bittersweet states (or to experience both states to moderate degrees).
You’re a true connoisseur of bittersweetness: the place where light and dark meet.
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